Natal-year mentality transfer
“You are all twenty-four, it’s time to consider this problem .” The aunt in the movie “Birth Year” told Li Huiquan that a unemployed young man just released from prison had only one missing picture of his mother at home.Xiaofen married, and was saved by several hundred dollars. The grandfather Cui Yongli only calculated and used him. The secret showgirl was finally packed by the grandfather . Finally, Li Huiquan was robbed after being robbed in the park, and was against the flow of people.In the process, the curtain fell down, and the brutal youth came to an abrupt end.
The title of “The Year of the Birth” is in line with the traditional ideal of the “hitting a hurdle” of people, and Li Huiquan, who is not across the hurdle.
More people, in their “reincarnation” in the twelve-year cycle, wear red underwear and red belts, and they must avoid the evil of the Chinese New Year in order to prevent possible “bad luck.”
The natal year is “evil-proof” into traditional red underwear, red underwear, red belt, red socks . The mother Liu Jie who is buying “red dress” is not for a happy “Santa” cosplay, but for the natal yearThe child prepares an “avoidance tool”.
“If you are too old to sit in front of you, there is no harm in happiness.” She said that she has a friend. When shopping at the end of the year, she always buys some red belts or socks, and even transfers beads.”Sister”, the name is “Sister (Relief) Salvation”.
Regarding the complex of the natal year, it seems difficult to separate it from the folk traditions. After inheritance and interpretation of the ancestors, the heavenly branches and zodiac signs are part of the culture of the Han people.
How did Liu Xinwu walk through the hurdles of his birthday?
Liu Xinwu wrote an article entitled “Kaner through the Birth Year”, mentioning that the first “Kan” in the Birth Year was during the child’s “early growth” period, when he lost his childhood precocity or his heart stagnation. “”Psychological narrow door” period, it is very important to get guidance from the teacher at this time; The second “hurdle” is a psychologically dangerous period for the twenty-four-year-old. For young people entering the society, the social diversity makes them overwhelmed and easy to block the confusion.Or extreme, just like the 24-year-old in “Birth Year”, fights, killings are single and simple patting bricks, stabbing a knife, extremely subversive and destructive.
Either draw a clear line between Chu and Han between the society and the self, especially if you are afraid of elders, leaders, authorities, strong men, and find a way to improve yourself. The balance between “Angry Youth” or “Yong Qing” needs “excellent culture”Third, the four “hurdles” can be summarized as a middle-aged crisis. This is a period of rapid maturity and success. It is caused by day and night, unwillingness and helplessness in the kitchen, and self-expansion to aggressiveness, mistakes, and illegality.Or consciously “have no chance” and get desperate, or jealous of others’ success, cowardice, confusion, and migration; Until the 60th year of the fifth “Kan”, it is the time of rapids and retreat, many people are planted in wine and wealth.
While indulging in nostalgia and the past, it may also be cynical, suspicious, and never get used to new things.
When all five “hammers” in a lifetime have gone through, they will generally no longer slap, and their psychology will become more and more calm.
In addition to the self-diagnosis and autonomy of the five “hurdles”, it is the inseparability of relatives and the abandonment of friends.
The twelve-year cycle is growth rather than a simple cycle. “This seems to be a cycle.
“Said Lu Yue, a senior psychological counselor at Beijing University Yanyuan Bosi Psychological Counseling Center.
Reincarnation, often associated with nirvana and rebirth, these words are like snake molting, which contains the meaning of sharpening and renewing.
“在现实而非宗教层面上，这种十二年的轮回，正好符合东方式的成长中的‘柳暗花明又一村’的轮回，而非‘大江歌罢掉头东’，它是在螺旋上升的Complete gradual and complete growth in the process.
Lu Yue said that, unlike the single-line “life-cycle theory” summarized by Western Erikson and others, the more profound significance of the change in the form of reincarnation is growth, rather than a simple cycle.
And in the natal year, people who seek help from “wearing red to avoid evil”, “They just try to control their lives.
“It’s like walking on a bustling street, a fortune-teller ran into you, and told you that it was difficult for you to get dark.
At this time, quite a few people will stop.
“Because their sense of security is not strong enough to accept the uncertain present and future.
In addition, Lu Yue feels that people have a hurdle of twelve years, and there is a mentality of “calculating the general ledger”: the twelve years of calamity broke out in one year, and then they were free and easy.
And the arrival of each “Kan” reminds people to always maintain a sense of awe and mystery about nature.
The need for mystery and awe in the past was a desire to fuse with a wider existence, but now it is a need for its own ability boundaries. The entire human race needs to know that they cannot dothing.
The support mentality is positive and not afraid to maintain the normal mind in the natal year: “the state is created by the heart” is too high, but “the heart wants everything to succeed” can always try?
The more you worry about it, the chances of it happening will scale, and you might as well think about it, “It’s only once in twelve years!
“Positive cues like” My Year of the Birth “may really be good luck.
Even if something bad happens, it is likely to be encountered every year, but you think the year of the “native year” is very special.
Look rationally at the problem: Well, the problem has already happened, and you can’t look at the “birth year” like this.
It is most important to maintain a positive attitude. This time, don’t give yourself some excuses for liability.
Treating customs as fashion: Whether you wear red underwear or pads with red insoles, it is good to experience pre-planned commercial gimmicks in a business society. It can follow the trend of “avoiding evil” and is also a fashion mentality.